Monday, December 15, 2014

Advice for Teenagers of All Ages



3rd Sunday of Advent
December 14, 2014
Isaiah 40:1-11; Psalm 85; 2 Peter 3:8-15a; Mark 1:1-8

“Comfort, comfort my people! says your God.  Speak compassionately to Jerusalem, and proclaim to her that her compulsory service has ended, that her penalty has been paid… A voice is crying out: ‘Clear the Lord’s way in the desert!’”[1]  What a beautiful opening from the prophet Isaiah.  “Comfort, comfort my people!  Speak compassionately to her, and proclaim to her that her penalty has been paid.”  What penalty?  Exile.  Why?  Because God’s people broke the covenant with God.  The people of Israel failed to uphold their side of the covenant by putting other things before God, by not fully trusting God, by turning a blind eye to injustice and oppression, and by not taking care of those in need in their community.  The consequence of their sin was exile to Babylon.  However, it was not exile for exile’s sake, but a pruning, or stripping away.  Pruning is when you cut the plant back so that new and better growth can appear.  This was God stripping away everything that was getting in the way of Israel’s relationship with God.  What’s getting in your way of a right relationship with God?  What’s getting in our church’s way?  Israel was exiled and suffered greatly because they messed up.  So have we.  I think there have been enough divisions and conflicts and unresolved arguments and harsh criticisms that we have also suffered greatly and been pruned.  And pruning hurts, it’s cutting something that’s living.  I think we have also been in exile.  Our Advent candle hymn says “O come, o come, Emmanuel, and ransom captive Israel, that mourns in lonely exile here.”  We have been lonely, we have been mourning, we have been held captive, and we are waiting to be ransomed.  Well, today’s Scripture is that word: “Tell my people they have suffered long enough and their sins are now forgiven.”[2]  The penalty has been paid.  Our season of pruning is over.  It is time for new growth.  A voice is crying out: ‘Clear the Lord’s way in the desert!’”  Or, in the old King James, “Prepare ye the way of the Lord!”  Prepare the Lord’s way, here in White Marsh [Middle River]!  Here in this church, clear the way for the Lord!  It is time to move forward.  Our sins are forgiven, the penalty has been paid in every way except monetary, it is time clear the way.  It is time to move on.  How do we do that?  By following advice you might give to a teenager. 
First, you gotta clean up.  It is time to move out the clutter, clean out the closets, both the ones here at the church and the ones in your brain.  Let bygones be bygones, or to quote the latest wildly popular Disney movie, “Let it go!”  It’s time to move on.  Let’s clean out the remnants of projects that didn’t work.  Let’s let go of feelings of resentment and grudges.  Someone’s not here anymore?  Let’s move on without them.  No one is irreplaceable.  Everyone has a role to play and someone else can fill that role.  The learning curve may be steep, but someone else can do it.  There isn’t room for new growth if all the old junk is taking up all the room.  There isn’t room for joy and peace if you’re holding on to bitterness and daily recounting the list of how you’ve been offended.  There isn’t room for Jesus if we’re too full of complaining and things that drain life and reminders of how life didn’t turn out how we had wished.  It’s time to clear out the clutter.  Keep the things that are good and life-giving and useful.  Let go of all the other junk.  There’s no space for new things if you’re holding on tightly to old things. 
It’s like where Jesus talks about new and old wineskins.  The first thing he says is that you don’t “sew a piece of new, unshrunk cloth on old clothes; [that way,] the patch tears away from it, the new from the old, and makes a worse tear. And no one pours new wine into old leather wineskins; otherwise, the wine would burst the wineskins and the wine would be lost and the wineskins destroyed. But new wine is for new wineskins.”[3]  God is ready to do a new thing in this place, but we have to throw out the old wineskins first.  There is no room for anything new, no room for growth, no room for anyone else, if we’re holding on to those old wineskins.  We have to let them go.  We have to clean up to get ready to receive new guests. 
Second, we have to apologize and forgive.  This is where John the Baptist’s message comes in today.  John the Baptist called for people to repent, to turn away from their sins, and “to be baptized to show that they were changing their hearts and lives and wanted God to forgive their sins.”[4]  Moving on and cleaning up doesn’t mean ignoring what happened.  Cleaning up a mess often involves an apology and forgiveness.  Forgiving someone who wronged you, so that you can move on.  Forgiving yourself for something you did, or didn’t do and should have done.  Apologizing to those to whom you did not treat with love and grace.  This is repentance: changed hearts and lives.  We’ve all done and said things we shouldn’t have done and we can all remember someone whose words have hurt us.  Beloved, it’s time to let it go.  If you need to apologize to someone, it’s time to do that.  If you need to forgive someone, it’s time to do that.  It’s time to let go of resentment and hurt and instead of a cold shoulder, to offer forgiveness.  It’s hard, I know.  It’s much easier to nurse our feelings of bitterness than to have to talk with someone we don’t want to talk with and do the hard work of forgiveness and creating a healthy relationship.  Changed hearts and lives.  It’s the only way anything is ever going to change and it’s the only way to make way for new growth. 
Finally, the last piece of advice for a teenager of any age is to keep it clean.  This requires a change, because obviously what we did before caused the mess, so we can’t do what we did before.  A different translation of our psalm this morning says, “Don’t let them return to foolish ways.”[5]  Foolishness is how we got into the mess we had to clean up.  Foolishness is what got us into trouble.  Foolishness is what caused us to have to be pruned, to be sent into exile, to be punished for our sins, to get us ready to try again.  Another version of the psalm says, “I am listening to what the Lord God is saying; he promises peace to us, his own people, if we do not go back to our foolish ways.”[6]  Sin is how we got to the state we’re in – conflict, argument, driving people away, division, not offering love and grace to one another, but the penalty has been paid.  The pruning has been done.  It is time for new growth.  But we can’t return to how things were before, regardless of whether you think they were “the good old days” or not.  Now is not then.  Now calls for something different, a different behavior, a different way of being in the world, changed hearts and lives.  Our Epistle lesson from 2 Peter says that we must live holy and godly lives, dedicated to God.  It’s time to move forward.  It’s time to keep it clean.  That means more communication, it means less criticism and murmuring, it means more working together.  We’re all on the same side. 
Have we learned anything as a result of our pruning?  Have we learned anything as a result of our suffering in exile?  Are we ready to return to a life of faithfulness and obedience?  Are we ready to love one another as Christ loves us?  It will mean some hard conversations as we clean up.  It will mean discerning what the next step is that God has for us as a church.  We have been pruned.  We’ve been mourning in lonely exile.  It is time to extend the hand of forgiveness and reconciliation.  It’s time to apologize for our part in creating the mess.  And it’s time to come home.  God is always waiting, with open arms, watching for us to turn around from the middle of our messes and come to him.  He’s waiting for us to make room for him in our hearts, to clear out the grudges and resentments, to clear his way in the desert, to clear his way in White Marsh [Middle River], to clear his way so that others can see him as well. 
“Comfort, comfort my people!  Speak compassionately to her, and proclaim to her that her penalty has been paid.”  Exile is over.  The time of pruning is over.  It’s time for new growth.  Are you ready for it? 


[1] Isaiah 40:1-3, CEB
[2] Isaiah 40:2 (GNB)
[3] Mark 2:21-22 (CEB)
[4] Mark 1:4 (CEB)
[5] Psalm 85:8 (CEB)
[6] Ibid, GNB

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