Tuesday, August 19, 2014

Bless Me, Too!

10th Sunday after Pentecost
August 17, 2014
Genesis 27:30-38; Matthew 15:21-28

            God bless you!  It’s what we normally say when someone sneezes, right?  Did you know in other languages that they say other things?  Gesundheit in German and salud in Spanish both mean “health,” not God bless you.  In fact, my Grandpa actually refuses to say “God bless you” when someone around him sneezes.  His rationale is that doesn’t God bless you all the other times, too?  Or just when you sneeze?  And he has a point.  God doesn’t only bless us when we sneeze, or when someone tells us, “God bless you.”  This morning we read two stories about people begging for a blessing.  We didn’t follow the Joseph story we started last week, but instead jumped back to Esau and Jacob and what caused the division between them that we talked about a couple weeks ago.  That Sunday we talked about wrestling with God until you receive a blessing.  Today’s stories are about pleading for a blessing.  The Canaanite woman in the Gospel text is in front of Jesus, on her knees, begging Jesus to save her daughter.  It reminded me of Esau begging his father Isaac to bless him, too, which is why I wanted to read that Old Testament story this morning.  Isaac was tricked into giving Jacob, the younger son, the blessing he had reserved for the older son, Esau.  You can hear the desperation in Esau’s voice when he cries, “Do you have only one blessing, father? Bless me too, father!”  It’s not too different from this Canaanite woman who kneels before Jesus and says, “Lord, help me!”  You’ve helped others, you’ve blessed others; surely you can save my daughter, too!  Surely there is room in your kingdom for me, too!  Please, Lord! 
            Have you ever found yourself in that position?  Begging the Lord to have mercy on you, too?  Surely I’ve been through enough.  Surely things can’t get any worse.  Surely the Lord will hear my cry and come and deliver me!  In this Gospel story, we are the woman, laying it all out there, prostrate at Jesus’ feet, begging for him to have mercy on us, too.  The disciples have already told her to go away.  Jesus calls her a dog and tells her no.  But she stays there, in that vulnerable position, and continues pleading with Jesus. 
            There have been many reasons to beg before Jesus this week.  We’ve learned about another suicide, this time a Hollywood celebrity who we loved and cherished for making us laugh.  And we find ourselves saying, “Lord, help us.  Not another suicide.  Lord, we can’t take any more.  Won’t you deliver us?”  It’s only been two months since Pastor Dan’s death and already we’re hearing about another suicide.  I didn’t know Pastor Dan, and so I don’t feel like I can talk about him.  However, about twenty years ago someone close to me committed suicide, and every September I remember him, the month he died.  He was my godfather.  That’s right, a person whose faith and walk with Christ was exemplary enough that my parents chose him to be a godparent to my sisters and me.  I remember the phone call, at 7 a.m., from the lawyer telling us about his death.  I remember that my sisters and I were the only children at the funeral service.  And I remember with gratitude all that he did for us, from sending us educational materials like a globe and maps, to finding summer camps for us to attend, to funding our college educations.  He made a huge difference in my life, for the better.  And yet, what happened at the end?  I don’t know.  It had only been three months since we’d last seen him, for my confirmation.  What happened was depression and the feeling that he was all alone and couldn’t escape the ghosts of his past. 
Mental illness isn’t one of those sicknesses that can be cured; it’s a chronic disease, something that’s treated and managed.  Those suffering from it need to know that they are not alone and that we are working to fight the stigma attached to it.  They do not need to be ashamed.  They do not need to be alone.  And the word of hope that came from The United Methodist Church communications office this week was “the affirmation of faith that nothing, including suicide, separates us from the love of God.”[1]  That is what we believe and where we start.  The statement also said that “We deplore the condemnation of people who complete suicide, and we consider unjust the stigma that so often falls on surviving family and friends.”  When we plead before God for those who have committed suicide, for those who attempted it, and for those who are the surviving community, we remember and claim those verses from Romans 8, that nothing can separate them or us from the love of God.  And we pray, Lord, won’t you bless them, too?  And the answer is YES.
The other horrifying national news this week was from Ferguson, Missouri about an unarmed teenager who was shot by a police officer and the ensuing week of violence.  Again, we cried out in horror, pleading with God to have mercy.  All life is sacred, because each of us is a child of God.  No one deserves to lose their life, under any pretense.[2]  The response from United Methodists in the St. Louis area was and is to be peacemakers.  Our fellow United Methodists are holding peace vigils, helping with cleanup, providing grief counseling, praying, and even providing childcare when the local school system cancelled classes.[3]  I hope and pray we will do the same when our community needs our support, for any reason.  And we pray, Lord, bless our sons and daughters, too.  And he is, through the church’s faithful response. 
However, the news from Ferguson also highlights our own sin of racism, which we don’t like to be reminded of and would prefer to think that we’ve moved past.  But we haven’t.  We don’t live in a post-racial world and this week was a painful reminder of that.  And so we pray, Lord, have mercy on me, a sinner.  My sister was in town this past week, taking the train up from North Carolina.  Driving to and from Penn Station in Baltimore, the GPS took us through city streets where I didn’t see a single white person, where many houses were boarded up, where the poverty and the blight both saddened me and scared me.  I’ve been the only white person in a room before, in a classroom, in a church, in other countries.  But somehow being an unknown white person, or not knowing anyone around me, makes me a little tenser than I know I should be.  I’m guessing many of you can relate.  And all we can pray is Lord, have mercy on us, too.  Teach us to love our brother and sister.  Teach us not to live in fear of one another. 
Especially this week, we are the Canaanite woman in the Gospel story.  We are the one the disciples want to dismiss and send away.  We are the foreigner coming to a person of a different race, of a different faith, and yet recognizing that our salvation is in him.  The woman knows she needs Jesus’ help and intervention to save her daughter.  She knows he’s the only one who can do it.  Even though Jesus may have been sent only to the lost sheep of the people of Israel, and she is not part of that people, she knows that Gentiles need this bread of heaven, too.  Even though Jesus calls her a dog, she persists, and says that “even the dogs eat the crumbs that fall from their master’s table.”  She is in a weak, vulnerable state, with no hint of arrogance or confidence whatsoever, and she continues to beg deliverance from Jesus.  Jesus recognizes her faith, and grants her the salvation she yearns for. 
What is going on in your life that has you pleading with Jesus?  Disease?  Work?  Lack of work?  Money?  Strained family relations?  Strained friendship?  Deceit?  What has you crying out for a blessing this week?  What is causing you to fall on your knees, at Jesus’ feet, begging him to have mercy on you, too, or to have mercy on a loved one?  The Canaanite woman is there on behalf of her daughter, who is tormented by a demon.  Are you being tormented by a demon?  Or are you pleading on someone else’s behalf?  What is Jesus saying to you?  Keep in mind that Jesus first told the woman NO.  Martin Luther said that this is sometimes how Jesus helps us, by killing us to give us life, by hiding the YES inside the NO, which has to come first.[4]  Sometimes God will continue to humble us before he says YES and remind us that our salvation comes from him alone. 
It’s reminiscent of the parable Jesus tells about the persistent widow and the unjust judge.[5]  The widow continually presents her case before the judge, and although the judge doesn’t care about justice, eventually he grants her justice against her opponent.  Luke, in whose Gospel this story is found, tells us that the purpose of the parable is to teach us the need to pray always and not to lose heart or become discouraged.  Even an unjust judge will eventually be worn down by a persistent cry for justice.  Jesus ends the parable by asking, “And will not God also grant justice to his people, who cry out to him day and night?” 
Continue crying out.  Continue begging and pleading.  Continue humbling yourself before your God until he hears your case and grants you justice.  It will come.  The answer may be NOT YET before it is YES, but God will hear your cry. Our middle hymn this morning begins “Just as I am, without one plea, but that thy blood was shed for me, and that thou bidst me come to thee.”[6]  Christ bids us come to him, which is why we continue to come, continue to cry out, and continue to plead that he have mercy on us, too.  Our closing hymn is written by someone who I have no doubt cried out to God.  Horatio Spafford lost his family in a trans-Atlantic voyage from England to the U.S.  When he later made the trip, he asked the ship’s captain to stop over the spot where the previous ship had gone down.  From that spot, he wrote the words to this hymn.  “Though Satan should buffet, though trials should come, let this blest assurance control, that Christ has regarded my helpless estate, and hath shed his own blood for my soul.”[7]  In this promise we trust and believe, on this promise we stand, “that Christ has regarded my helpless estate and shed his own blood for my soul.”  Thanks be to God.  Amen.



[3] Ibid.
[4] This sermon is heavily influenced by Dr. Willie Jennings’ course on “Christian Identity and the Formation of the Racial World,” lecture on “Reframing Gentile Existence: The Contours of a Theological Identity,” class notes September 14, 2009
[5] Luke 18:1-8
[6] “Just as I Am, Without One Plea” by Charlotte Elliott, UMH 357
[7] “It Is Well with My Soul” by Horatio Spafford, UMH 377

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