Tuesday, August 16, 2016

Remaking Lemonade

13th Sunday after Pentecost
August 14, 2016
Isaiah 5:1-7; Psalm 80; Hebrews 11:29-12:2


            Our opening Scripture this morning describes a vineyard. The gardener dug out the land for it, cleared away the stones, and removed the weeds. He planted it with excellent vines and watered it and tended it. The gardener built a tower to guard it and waited for for it to produce good grapes, which was a reasonable expectation after all the hard work he put into it. But…he was sorely disappointed. The grapes weren’t any good at all; they were all rotten. It did not turn out at all how the gardener had planned and what he had expected.
            This year’s summer Olympics have seen a few upsets as well, where the games did not go as expected. For example, Canada’s men’s volleyball team, ranked #12, beat in three straight sets our American men’s volleyball team, who was ranked 5th.[1] Every Olympics there are athletes who have trained and put in significant amounts of time and energy and money into becoming an Olympian, only to not qualify, or to be injured, or for something to happen that prevents their dreams from becoming reality.
            For these Olympians and for the gardener with the vineyard, it’s a bit like the saying of “when life gives you lemons.” I’ve been hearing from a few of you the sense that you’re not sure you can handle life giving you any more lemons. You’ve had enough plans upset and expectations unmet, you’re not sure you can deal with being given yet another lemon. Life has not turned out how you expected. Your family is not what you planned it to look like. Your health is not where you thought it would be. Our country is not what you expected it would be like in 2016. Our church is not what you thought it would be like. Life has handed you lemons, so, what are you going to do about it?

            Well, you know the rest of the saying, you make lemonade. The good news is that the other two ingredients for lemonade are not dependent on “the changes and chances of this life.”[2] So no matter how many lemons you have, the water and the sugar do not run out. It’s kind of like the prophet Elijah going to the widow of Zarephath during the drought.  While he stayed with her, the jar of flour and the jug of oil never ran out until the drought was over.[3] They always had enough to eat, even if there wasn’t any variety in their food! God provided food for them, and in the same way provides enough to sustain us.
            So, first, let’s add some water. Lemons by themselves are pretty sour and there’s not much juice.  To make it go further than a swallow or two, you need water.  From a biological standpoint, water is the essence of life.  Literally, you cannot have life without water.  That is why it was such a big deal to discover water on Mars.  From a Christian standpoint, water means baptism.  It means new life.  It means washing away the old and being made clean.  And the other thing that happens in baptism is that you get a new name: beloved child of God.  In the waters of baptism Christ claims you and names you his own.  Your primary identity is no longer Baltimorean or male or wife or anything else; it is child of God.  Christian.  And that doesn’t change no matter how many lemons you get, no matter the state of your health or the size of your family.  Your circumstances never make you give up this identity.  You stay who you are, even if you have a new haircut or move to a different house or find yourself unable to do things you used to do.  In your baptism God already claimed you as his, and that never changes, although you may decide to ignore it.
We hear some examples of the saints who never forgot their identity as God’s children in our reading from Hebrews. “By faith the Israelites crossed the Red Sea… By faith Jericho’s walls fell after the people marched around them for seven days… By faith Rahab wasn’t killed with the rest…”[4] And there’s a much, much longer list if you read the rest of chapter 11. By the end, the author says, “I’d run out of room if I told about Gideon, Barak, Samson, Jephthah, David, Samuel, and the prophets.”[5] Through faith they conquered, they shut the mouths of lions, they quenched fires, they escaped, they found strength in weakness. Still others were tortured or publicly shamed or imprisoned or stoned to death. And the end of that chapter, after that long list, we are told that “All these people did not receive what was promised, although they were commended for their faith.” They kept their faith, even when life handed them lemons. They stayed faithful to God.
Did you catch the cry of the psalm we read? “Turn to us, Almighty God! Look down from heaven; come and save your people! Come and save this grapevine that you planted, this young vine you made grow so strong! Restore us, O Lord God of hosts! Let your face shine, that we may be saved!”[6] That’s a faithful response, and that’s part of what we’ve been talking about with all the horrendous news we’ve been hearing this summer. Turn to God with your lemons. Throw them at him if you want. It’ll be a game of catch, he’ll toss them right back at you, but he does invite us to come to him, we who “labor and are heavy-laden,” because he will give us rest for our souls.[7]
So whatever lemons you’re handed, make sure you don’t lose your faith and your identity as Christian.  Make sure you remember your baptism, your identity as a child of God, and be thankful that nothing can take that identity away.  That’s part of why we don’t re-baptize.  You may lose your way, you may get overwhelmed, you may reject God, but God does not reject you.  He knows that you are still his beloved child.  In the Christian world water means baptism, and baptism means becoming part of God’s family, regardless of the number of lemons you have.
          So, now you have lemons and water; the last ingredient you need for lemonade is sugar.  You have enough lemony water to go around, but it’s going to be awfully sour unless you add some sugar.  What makes life sweeter?  God’s grace.  God’s freely given unconditional love that loves you no matter what you do.  God’s love that chases you down when you run away, sometimes tapping you on the shoulder, sometimes hitting you over the head with a 2x4, saying, “Hey, you, I love you.  You are my beloved child.”
As United Methodists we talk specifically about three kinds of grace.  Prevenient grace is the grace that comes before we even know God.  It’s why we baptize infants, because we recognize that God’s grace is already at work in their lives, that God already loves them.  Justifying grace is the grace that saves us.  It’s the love that made Jesus willing to die for us on the cross.  It’s being made right with God through the atoning work of Jesus Christ.  Being justified, like the words on a paper, all lined up with God.  But God isn’t done with us there.  Accepting the love of Jesus Christ already at work in you through prevenient grace isn’t the end of the story, because then there is sanctifying grace, becoming more like Jesus.  And sometimes this is done through trials, through lemons. 
            And in God’s grace, we don’t do this alone. “Not one of these people” listed in that Hall of Faith in Hebrews, “even though their lives of faith were exemplary, [none of them] got their hands on what was promised. God had a better plan for us: that their faith and our faith would come together to make one completed whole, their lives of faith not complete apart from ours.”[8] The faith of all those who have gone before us along with our faith comes together. Their lives of faith and our lives of faith are not separate and individual, but part of a whole, all part of God’s kingdom, part of God’s family. Our lemons get combined with everyone else’s lemons, God provides the water and the sugar, and together we turn them all into lemonade. That’s God’s better plan. All those saints listed, all the saints that you can think of, “they were commended for their faith, [and yet] did not receive what was promised, since God had provided something better, so that they would not, apart from us, be made perfect.[9] We are all in this together. Your lemons are my lemons and my lemons are yours. We share each other’s burdens. And then we get to share the lemonade, too!
The end of that passage from Hebrews says, “As for us, we have this large crowd of witnesses around us. So then, let us rid ourselves of everything that gets in the way, and of the sin which holds on to us so tightly, and let us run with determination the race that lies before us. Let us keep our eyes fixed on Jesus, on whom our faith depends from beginning to end. He did not give up because of the cross! On the contrary, because of the joy that was waiting for him, he thought nothing of the disgrace of dying on the cross, and he is now seated at the right side of God's throne.”[10] Jesus got handed lemons, too. You may think, oh, Son of God, he’s got it made, he’ll slide right by. But no. His students abandon him. His friends betray him. He is innocent, and yet he gets the death penalty. Jesus knows about lemons. He knows about being overwhelmed and not sure you can handle any more. He knows about feeling abandoned by God. And what does he do on the cross? He offers grace. He turns to the thief crucified next him, who deserved to be there, and says, “Today you will be with me in paradise.”[11]
If you’re in a season of lemons, hold on, and remember that you’re in good company. It means you’re being made more like Christ, you’re being sanctified, by the grace of God.  And you may be thinking, like Mother Teresa, “I know God won't give me anything I can't handle. I just wish he didn't trust me so much.” Don’t forget, all those other saints in the Bible got handed a truckload of lemons, too. And none of them received what was promised, because God had a better plan.
Most of you know that I served with a mission agency in Nicaragua before seminary and that I loved it! It was a dream come true. Some of you are aware that I returned to the U.S. earlier than I was supposed to, partly because of the rheumatoid arthritis I developed.  To say I was disappointed would be an understatement; I went through a period of grieving the loss of a dream and the loss of normal health.  However, I returned to North Carolina at the perfect time to re-meet my husband.  A year earlier, he wouldn’t have been available, and who knows what would’ve happened by two years later. Romans 8:28 says “We know that all things work together for good, for those who love God, who are called according to his purpose.”  All things include lemons.  It’s not fun, no.  It’s not what we would have planned for our lives.  But God says, Make lemonade.  Take the sour lemons and your baptismal identity and God’s grace and God’s family, and work with God and let God make something good come out of it.




[2] The Book of Common Prayer, Compline, p. 133
[3] 1 Kings 17:14
[4] Hebrews 11:29-31
[5] Hebrews 11:32
[6] Psalm 80:14-15, 19
[7] Matthew 11:28-29
[8] Hebrews 11:39-40, MSG
[9] Ibid., CEB, emphasis mine
[10] Hebrews 12:1-2, GNT
[11] Luke 23:43

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