Tuesday, July 5, 2016

Burdens and Rest

7th Sunday after Pentecost
July 3, 2016
Galatians 6:1-6


            A blog started in 2005 called postsecret.com. The author doesn’t post his own writing, like many of us do on blogs.  Y’all know that I put my sermons on mine, in case you want to hear something again or you’re out on Sunday and missed it. In any case, this author gets his content from other people. He passed out a bunch of postcards at Metro stops in Washington, D.C. and invited folks to mail them back to him anonymously with a secret on them that they had never told anyone before. The project started off slow, but now he gets about 200 postcards every day. Obviously, he doesn’t post all of them, but 11 years later he still updates the blog once a week with new cards. The practice reminds me of the Catholic rite of going to confession. You go in the confessional booth, confess your sins to the priest, and receive forgiveness, with only the priest knowing all your secrets, or at least as many of them as you confess to him. In this case, it’s the whole online community who hears your secrets, and yet it’s more anonymous than a confessional booth, because no one knows who’s secret is whose. Yet at the same time, you finally get to share whatever secret has been weighing you down.
            In our Galatians reading today, Paul writes that we are to “carry each other’s burdens,” because in doing so, “we fulfill the law of Christ.” Jesus says that the greatest commandment is “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.” And the second is like unto it: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” So, loving your neighbor as yourself means sharing your neighbor’s burdens. That’s part of what we do as the church. We come together to worship and to share our burdens. We share prayer concerns and at times like over donuts, we share what’s going on in our lives. Your neighbor can’t share your burden if they don’t know about it. Now, for those who tend to over-share, please know that we don’t really want to know what you had for breakfast, or lunch, or dinner. However, we, your brothers and sisters in Christ, do want to know what’s weighing you down, what heavy loads you’re carrying, because we want to share the burden with you. We don’t want to share it because we’re masochistic and love pain; we want to share it because we love you. Sharing your burden is one way we can show love to you, and so fulfill Jesus’ commandment to love our neighbor as ourself. Sharing others’ burdens is why we’re sending flood buckets to West Virginia after the massive storms they’ve had there and it’s why we’re talking about changing legislation around guns after the shooting in Orlando. The Bible says we’re to bear each other’s burdens.
Now the next thing that Paul writes in Galatians is that “each person should test their own work and be happy with doing a good job, not comparing themselves with others.” Each person should test their own work, each person is to evaluate their own work. Sometimes we are our own worst critic and sometimes we do need an outside opinion. If you’re making a quilt and you want to decide on the next fabric to use, I can give you ideas, but you’ve got to decide yourself what you think will go best. Another translation says, “You are to each judge your own conduct. If it is good, then you can be proud of what you yourself have done, without having to compare it with what someone else has done.” And that’s part of the idea here, with being happy for doing a good job. I remember one math class in high school where the teacher returned papers and tests by passing them down each row and so you saw the grade of the person who sat behind you. The guy who sat behind me always had a better grade than me, no matter how well I did. One time I aced the test, I got 100, and he got 105, because he got the bonus question right. I was happy with my 100, yet I was competitive enough that I was disappointed I still hadn’t gotten a better grade than my classmate! That’s why Paul says, “All must test their own work; then that work, rather than their neighbor’s work, will become a cause for pride.” Take pride in a job well done. Have high expectations of yourself, whether it’s work to earn a living or work at the church or work at home or work in the community. Take joy in doing a good job, not in comparing your job to others. Being competitive can be a good thing, because it can get you to improve. My math grade improved because I wanted a better grade than the smart guy behind me. But make sure it doesn’t over-consume you so that the competition becomes your focus instead of doing a good job. In other words, keep the main thing the main thing.
As we celebrate our country’s birthday tomorrow, let’s remember that as Americans as well. Our country is unique from any other country on the planet. We can’t really compare ourselves to anyone, or even to our past. A comparison or competition might be helpful to learn more about ourselves, yet our goal is to do a good job now, and not just a good enough job but work we can take pride in. We know that our troops are proud of the work that they do and our vets are proud of the work they did. Are you proud of the work that you do, today? If you’re stuck in a rut, perhaps get an outside opinion, get some other ideas, something to get your brain churning again. That’s part of why we’re here, to bear each other’s loads; not to compete with you, or to help you compete with yourself, but to help you do a better job.
And yet just three verses after Paul says we’re to bear each other’s burdens, he writes that “each person has to carry their own load.” There are a few places in the Bible where it directly contradicts itself, and this seems to be one of them. Wait, what, Paul? We’re to carry each others’ burdens and we each have to carry our own burden?! Well, this goes back to that sharing secrets. It’s still your secret, even after you share it, whether anonymously or in a confessional booth. You still have to carry it. We can pray for you about an upcoming doctor’s appointment, we can even go to it with you, but we can’t go it for you. We can hold your hand during an MRI, EKG, CAT scan, or any other three letter test, but you still have to go through it yourself. That’s how each one of us also carries our own loads. We each have our own cross to carry, and it helps to share it, it helps to describe it to others, it helps just to acknowledge it sometimes, yet it is still ours to carry.
Friends make the burden lighter. Jesus makes it the lightest of all. He says, “Come to me, all you that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.” He doesn’t say that you get no burden at all, he says that it’s light and easy and gentle and you can find rest for your soul here. If your burden has been overwhelming you, or all you can see is your neighbor is doing it better, or even how you used to be able to do it better, then it’s time to re-shift your focus back to Jesus. Take his yoke. Love God with all your heart and soul and mind and strength, and love your neighbor as yourself. Those aren’t the easiest things to do. Sometimes we love ourselves more or we love other things more or we don’t want to recognize who our neighbor is. Yet that’s the way to find rest for your souls. In serving others, we serve God. In carrying each other’s burdens, it makes it easier to carry our own burden. It’s a paradox, I know. Yet that’s what God calls us to do. Love God. Love your neighbor. Share your neighbor’s burden. Carry your own burden. May God grant us the strength and courage to do so without complaining and to his glory!

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