Tuesday, December 1, 2015

Dull Heart Syndrome

1st Sunday of Advent
November 29, 2015
Jeremiah 33:14-16; Psalm 25:1-10; 1 Thessalonians 3:9-13; Luke 21:25-36

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            “The time is coming, declares the Lord, when I will fulfill my gracious promise with the people of Israel and Judah.  In those days and at that time, I will raise up a righteous branch from David’s line… In those days, Judah will be saved and Jerusalem will live in safety.”[1]  I don’t know about you, but when I first read that passage from Jeremiah, my first reaction was “Uh-oh.”  I’m sure God appreciated that response.  “The time is coming,” says the Lord, “when I will fulfill my promise,” and my initial thought is “Uh-oh.  What’s coming?  Hold on just a second there, Lord, there’s enough going on already.  What do you mean something else is coming?”  Except this thing coming is different than what has come before, it’s different than what’s going on now.  This thing coming is the long-expected Messiah, our Savior, who we’ve been waiting quite impatiently to come, as Christmas sales and music and decorations start earlier each year.  God says, “I’m coming,” and my first thought is wait a minute, I don’t want you to come just now.  I’ve got too much to do, sermons to write, services to prepare for, children to take care of, parishioners to visit, meetings to go to, evaluations, holiday dinners, family visits, cleaning, cooking, washing, laundry, dogs, vets, cars, husbands – wait, only one of those.  Either way, Lord, there’s just too much right now.  I can’t add you to the list. 
            And then if we jump to our Gospel reading from Luke, Jesus is again describing that day, that time when God is coming.  Look closely at verse 34.  Jesus says, “Take care that your hearts aren’t dulled by …the anxieties of day-to-day life.”[2]  Be careful, so that your hearts are not weighed down with the worries of this life.[3]  Be careful. Guard your hearts. They can be made heavy with the hassles of daily life.[4]  Your hearts can be made heavy, your hearts can be dulled by the worries and anxieties of everyday life.  Now, I want to be clear that I’m not talking about clinical depression or a medical disease.  I’m talking about when you’ve got that long list and life is just too full and you’re managing, although it may be a time when Jesus is carrying you and there’s only one set of footprints in the sand.  Your heart can become dull by the hassles of daily life and not enough time or energy set aside for self-care. 
            Now, y’all have learned that I like words, and I looked up ‘dull’ in the thesaurus.  It makes for better writing, you know, when you use different words and don’t repeat the same word over and over.  First, it talked about ‘dull’ like being cloudy, overcast, gray, and gloomy.  Then ‘dull’ like boring, uninteresting, tedious, and unexciting.  The third entry was dark, dim, faded, which I think is how I would describe a dull heart.  Then came dull as in not smart, slow on the uptake, and dense.  The last entry for ‘dull,’ however, stopped me short.  It was the only verb in the list, rather than an adjective.  “Take care that your hearts aren’t dulled” uses ‘dull’ as a verb and the first synonymous verb listed is ‘deaden.’  Be careful that your hearts aren’t deadened.  It sounds a bit more ominous, doesn’t it?  The other verbs listed are dampen, blunt, blur, reduce.  Yes, certainly take care that your heart isn’t reduced, although to be sure, it would be seasonally appropriate in a Grinchy type of way.  Your heart can be reduced, like the Grinch, your heart can be deadened, your heart can be muted in color and brightness when you let yourself get caught up in and overwhelmed by everyday life. 
This is a season where there is a lot going on.  This is a place and a time when life moves faster.  If we’re not careful, we will lose the excitement and the enthusiasm of God fulfilling his promise to send us a Messiah.  We will miss God’s kingdom drawing near.  Our response will be, “Uh-oh, another mouth to feed,” rather than the excitement and wonder of a new baby at Christmastime, the excitement and wonder of God among us.  You see, despair doesn’t come only when tragedy strikes, it can also come in mundane everyday life.  Despair is when we cannot imagine God’s promised alternative future.[5]  Despair is when what is going on right now has such a hold on us, that we cannot imagine life any other way.  It’s when we can’t see the light at the end of the tunnel.  It’s when we can’t see life getting better.  And it doesn’t have to be a disease like depression or a tragedy like anything in the news today to cause it.  Sometimes it’s just the regular ordinary things, because this time of year, there is more to daily life than the rest of the year.  There’s parties and cookie exchanges and caroling and Christmas presents and Christmas trees and decorating and family get-togethers.  And these are all good things.  It’s just that a lot more happens on a routine basis than happens other times of the year.  And we get stuck when we can’t see any way out.  We got stuck when we start to dread Christmas and view baby Jesus as just another mouth to feed. 
            Up until about two days before it, I dreaded my sixteenth birthday.  That’s one of those milestone birthdays, sweet sixteen, in North Carolina at the time, you could get your full driver’s license.  It’s supposed to be this fantastic birthday, right?  But my family had plans to move two days later, and I was not excited about moving, and so I wasn’t excited about my upcoming birthday, either, even if it was sweet sixteen.  Finally, the weekend before, I decided that it was silly to dread your birthday, to not want it to come.  All my life I’d always been excited about my birthday, why should I let a move overshadow it?  Being excited about my birthday made the move go a little smoother, too, because that excitement carried over to my last couple days at my old high school. 
            Today we start the season of Advent.  In the church, it’s not actually the Christmas season yet, it’s Advent.  We have four Sundays to go until it’s Christmas.  I read a Christian blog post this past week that claimed there isn’t a war on Christmas, retailers don’t care what we do on December 25th; there is a war, though, in this author’s opinion, on Advent.[6]  She wrote, “Historically Christians have spent the days of Advent preparing themselves for Christ's coming, both as a baby in a manger and for His second coming at the end of time. Parties, gorging on fudge, sappy movies, and shopping are not actually longstanding Christian customs. On the contrary, to prepare for the coming of Christ, Christians traditionally spent the days before Christmas in somber reflection and prayer.”  Almost makes you want to laugh, doesn’t it?  Somber reflection and prayer?  How are we going to fit that in to the holiday schedule?  And yet that’s what Advent is about.  It’s the anticipation and preparation and getting ready for Christmas, it’s not Christmas itself.  The problem is we, in general, as a society, want instant gratification so much and don’t want to wait until Christmas that we want Christmas now!  We have year-round Christmas stores, we have Christmas sales that start in October, we have people boasting how early they put up their Christmas tree.  We don’t want to wait.  But when we don’t put the preparation and expectation into getting ready for Christmas, and just skip straight to Christmas, then we’re not ready for baby Jesus.  He does become just another mouth to feed.  We can’t skip Advent. 
            One response I’ve seen from the church is to extend the season of Advent so that it starts the Sunday after All Saints’ Sunday, the second Sunday in November.[7]  And I think that’s an interesting idea; I’d actually like to discuss it with our worship teams for next year.  Apparently before the 11th century, Advent was seven weeks’ long, not just the four like it is now.  The goal of extending Advent back to seven weeks is so Advent isn’t overrun by Christmas and we can keep each season well.  It gives churches a little more time to get ready before the rush and onslaught that has become the month of December.  It’s so that our hearts don’t get dulled by all the activities and we can keep watch better for Jesus’ birth. 
            However, we didn’t do that this year, and so where are we now?  Well, we have a beautiful prayer in our psalm.  “To you, O Lord, I lift up my soul.  O my God, in you I trust, let me not be put to shame.”[8]  Let me not be overwhelmed.  “Let none that wait for you be put to shame.”[9]  We are those who are waiting.  In Isaiah, God promises that those who wait for him “shall renew their strength, they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint.”[10]  Wait for the Lord, and he will sharpen and brighten your heart that was dulled by the drudgery of everyday life.  We also have a prayer in our 1 Thessalonians reading for our hearts to be strengthened.  “May the Lord make you increase and abound in love for one another and for all… May the love cause your hearts to be strengthened.”[11] 
            If your heart has gotten dulled by the anxieties of day-to-day life, if you are not excited about Christmas coming, if you have found yourself trying to skip over Advent and rush straight for Christmas, take a moment, take a deep breath, and relax.  Spend the next four weeks waiting for the Lord, rather than rushing his coming.  He’ll come in his own time.  I think we all know that God does things on his own timing, and you can’t rush him, or you’ll ruin the sunset.  I pray that instead of a life that is too full, you may instead find that your cup overflows, and that goodness and mercy may follow you all the days of your life, and you may dwell in the house of the Lord forever.  Amen.





[1] Jeremiah 33:14-16
[2] Luke 21:34, CEB
[3] Ibid., NRSV
[4] Ibid., VOICE
[5] Feasting on the Word, Year C, Vol. 1, p. 4
[8] Psalm 25:1-2a
[9] Psalm 25:3a
[10] Isaiah 40:31
[11] 1 Thessalonians 3:12-13

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