Thursday, May 26, 2016

Wise in Whose Eyes?

Trinity Sunday
May 22, 2016
Proverbs 8:1-4, 22-31;  John 16:12-15

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            One of the important things in my marriage is that my husband and I can make each other laugh.  In a lot of ways, we have similar, or at least compatible, senses of humor.  We’re both pretty good at sarcasm, for example.  However, one area of humor where we differ is that my husband loves puns. For example, if you need an ark because of all the rain we’ve been getting, I “Noah” guy. [pause] 
Or, how about this one: The first wiseman says to the second wiseman, “I’ll bring the gold and you bring the frankincense.” And the third wiseman says, “But wait, there’s myrrh!” [pause] I do not share his love for or his interest in puns. If you have a good pun and are looking for someone to appreciate it, go share it with my husband.  If you’re looking for someone to give a good eye roll and maybe even groan out loud, come share it with me. Even though I don’t appreciate his puns, what I do love is the expression on his face when he tells them to me. He just has this big grin, ear to ear, because he is so pleased with himself that he thought of this pun. And I think he’s adorable when he does that. So, I don’t laugh at the pun, yet I often laugh at the expression on his face and how happy he is at having created a pun. In his eyes, the pun is funny. In my eyes, he’s funny. And both are okay.
            Last Sunday we celebrated the coming of the Holy Spirit on Pentecost and now today we celebrate the Trinity, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. Yet our readings still seem to focus more on the Spirit than on the other two persons of the Trinity. In the Gospel, Jesus says that the Spirit of Truth will come and will guide us in all truth. In the Old Testament, now that we’re done reading from the book of Acts until next Easter, the passage from Proverbs is about Wisdom. We learn Wisdom was there from the beginning of time, before creation. If you remember from the beginning of Genesis, the first sentence of the Bible, “In the beginning… The Spirit of God hovered over the waters.” Wisdom is often considered to be the Holy Spirit. And so with the coming of Pentecost, wisdom is here, because the Holy Spirit is here. One preacher I heard last week pointed out that the Spirit didn’t stand at the door and knock, like the familiar picture of Jesus standing outside a door with his hand raised to knock to match the verse, “Behold, I stand at the door and knock.” No, the Holy Spirit swept right on in to the upper room where the disciples were hiding in fear. There was no polite knock or a call ahead of time; the Spirit just barged on in. And what we read about Wisdom is that she stands at the crossroads, not from the side of the road, and she shouts from the entrances and city gates, and the last line of the last verse in our passage from Proverbs says that she delights in the human race. Wisdom, the Holy Spirit, is here.
            I’d think that we’re well aware that wisdom is here. God knows the number of hairs on our heads, I wonder how many white or silver hairs he would count, if he were to count our collective number of white strands of hair here today? I have my own, too, lest you think I’m not contributing to that count! We know wisdom is here because we have wisdom here, among us. I know that ageism says that older folks aren’t highly valued in our society, but make sure you hear me, you are highly valued here in the church. Your worth does not diminish as you grow older. My friend, Sue, who was with me last week in Atlanta was reading a book about “eldering.” She said that the premise is that you don’t grow older, you grow elder, you grow in wisdom, you grow in knowledge. Having so many grandparents, and great-grandparents, here in our midst is a blessing, because you have the opportunity to teach those of us who are younger. Whether you have kids or grandkids of your own or not, you have church kids and church grandkids and we who live with them appreciate and need your help in raising them. One of our strengths is that we are multigenerational. Where else do you get to be with a weeks old baby and a nonagenarian (that means someone in their 90s) in the same place on a regular basis? Wisdom is here. We know this, because we can look around and see it. Let’s not be afraid to share it. While it’s true that too many cooks can spoil the broth, if you have something particular that you’ve learned or experienced, we will all be the better for you to share it with us.
One of the phrases that caught my attention in a prayer last week was about recognizing the “the values of the young and the potential of the old.”  And I went, wait a minute, did I just hear that right? Usually, we talk about the potential of the young and the values of the old. What if we switch it? The values of the young and the potential of the old. The young have values. One of the ones I saw in USA Today last week was about how millennials are more likely to buy a smaller house, and not a house that is bigger than what they really need. They saw their parents or friends’ parents or neighbors lose their houses when the housing bubble burst a few years ago, and so they are figuring out ways for that not to happen to them, like buying a house outright and not having a mortgage. And then the  potential of the old. You still have potential, no matter what your age is. You are never fully done becoming who God created you to be until the hour you die. God’s not done with you yet. You still have potential. No matter your age, both our young and our old, we all have value, have values, and have potential. There is wisdom among us to be shared. From our mistakes, from our successes, from what has happened in the past. Not to judge it, or to judge you; no one is in a position to so that but Christ himself. Simply share with us what you know, what you’ve learned, and what you still want to learn.
            So, as Jesus says, “Let those who have ears to hear,” listen and take heed. It is up to us to listen, up to us to accept, up to us to continue to join the dance. Your worth does not diminish as you age, or when you’re sick, or when you’re out of work, or when your kids are grown, or when your kids are little. You are always God’s beloved child and you always have something to contribute to God’s family: yourself. Sometimes your presence is all you have the energy to offer, and your presence is enough. Other times, you have something else to contribute, your history, your stories, your knowledge, your wisdom, things you have learned over your lifetime, regardless of the length of your lifetime. Sometimes it’s out of the mouths of babes that we hear wisdom. Other times it’s out of those of us with white hair. Wisdom is here. We know this. We may not always understand it, but we can join in the dance, anyway.

            Just as the Trinity is God, three-in-one, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, so we in the church need all of our parts as well. Just as a choir needs different voices in order to be able to sing in harmony, so does the church. A choir that is all sopranos sings only one note. The music is richer and more beautiful when you get to hear all the parts singing together. So, please, share your part with us. Join in the dance. Join in the singing. Join in the story-telling. We don’t all have to agree. We don’t all have to say, “I would have done the exact same thing if I were in your place.” What we are is all God’s beloved children. What we say to each other is “I love you. God loves you. Peace be with you. I’m at peace with you, because you are my brother and sister.” Regardless of whose eyes you’re wise in, or who thinks you’re funny, we’re still all family. We’re still all in this together, and we need everyone’s voice. Thanks be to God, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, in whom we live and move and have our being. Amen.

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