Thursday, May 12, 2016

When an Angel Sounds Like Your Mother

Ascension Sunday
May 8, 2016
Mother’s Day
Acts 1:1-11; Luke 24:44-53

            I’m guessing there are times when your mother has sounded like an angel. Perhaps she has a lovely singing voice and sang in the church choir. Or perhaps she’s the one who held you when you woke up from a nightmare as a child and would tell you “don’t be afraid.” Maybe she’s the one who shared the great news about Jesus with you, like the angels telling the shepherds about Jesus’ birth. Hopefully, there have been many times when your mother has sounded like an angel. In today’s passage from Acts, however, rather than a mother sounding like these angels, these two angels sound a lot like my mother. If your mom was anything like my mom, then you often got told to go do things, and not just any things, but good, helpful things. Go set the table. Go pick up your room. Go unload the dishwasher. Go feed the dog. Go see if you can help. That was a common one, especially when we were visiting somewhere. Whether Grandma’s kitchen or an aunt’s or a friend’s, Mom would nudge me and whisper in my ear, “Go see if you can help.” Anyone else’s mom do that? Go make yourself useful.  Go see how you can help those who are busy working. Sometimes, though, she had already volunteered your help, right?  I told Grandma you could help her with this. Or, not volunteered you ahead of time, but volunteered you with you present and the person you were going to help present as well, so you can’t say no. One time when I was home from college on break and our church participated in a ministry similar to Streets of Hope, except that the homeless families rotated among the churches and volunteers from each church had to spend the night at church with them. So one night my mom volunteered me. The thing about it was, was that after that, I volunteered on my own to spend the night at church once each time it was our church’s turn to host.  And I often still go into whatever kitchen of whatever host and ask how I can help.  Those kinds of things get ingrained in you. It’s our mom’s voice we can still hear in our ear, whether she’s with us or not.
            And what these angels say to the disciples, who are still staring up at heaven after Jesus, sounds a lot like my mother. I’m willing to guess that they sounded a lot like your mother, too. “Galileans, why are you standing there looking up at the sky? This Jesus, who was taken from you into heaven, will come back in the same way that you saw him go to heaven.”[1] Or, in other words, “Hey, you! Why are you just standing around? Jesus will come back. And until he does, there’s work to be done.” It’s a bit like reminding a little kid at the door that their parent is coming back. At the end of Luke’s Gospel, Jesus is taken up to heaven, and the disciples “were continuously in the temple praising God.”[2] Then Luke keeps writing, beginning the book of Acts, and he adds a few details here that he didn’t include in his gospel, like the conversation between Jesus and his disciples right before Jesus ascends to heaven. The disciples essentially say, “We know what you’re going to do. We know you’re going to restore God’s kingdom here on earth. So, when are you going to do it?”[3] It’s a question they ask repeatedly during their time with Jesus. Is now the time? Is now the time? How about now? Again, the disciples sound like little kids. Are we there yet? And like a parent tired of hearing the same question over and over again, Jesus gives them a variety of answers, usually some variation of ‘no’ or ‘not yet,’ sometimes adding an explanation of what his kingdom will be like. Yet all the disciples want to know is, is it now? We know and believe you’re the one to redeem and restore Israel, when is that coming? How long, O Lord, must we wait to see this promise fulfilled? It’s like a kid asking how old they have to be before they can do something special. (And my daughter is very quick these days to point out that she will be 4 on her next birthday!) The last answer Jesus gives before his ascension is to say, “You don’t get to know the time. Timing is the Father’s business. What you’ll get is the Holy Spirit, [which we’ll celebrate next week on Pentecost]. And when the Holy Spirit comes on you, you will be able to be my witnesses in Jerusalem, all over Judea and Samaria, even to the ends of the world.”[4]  Jesus says this, and then up he goes to heaven. And the disciples are just left staring after him, until the angels sound a lot like a mother and say, “Hey, you!  Quit standing around and go see if you can help!”
            As y’all know, there is always work to be done. Whether at your house or my house or here at church or at the place where you work or a place where you volunteer, there is always something that can be done. You cross of the last item of a to-do list just to start the next to-do list, or, have you ever moved an item (or three) from an old list to your new to-do list? The list never ends, there is always something: a floor to clean, phone calls to make, trash to take out, toys to pick up, laundry to wash, a meal to cook… It’s no wonder my mom would always tell me to go see if I could help! Waiting during this time before Jesus’ return is an active waiting. We’ve a lot to get ready and a lot to do. Don’t let the amount of it overwhelm you, because then you’ll just get a glass-eyed stare like the disciples. And don’t let it stress you or pressure you. We’re simply taking care of things until the Master returns, however long that is. Jesus says the time is not for us to know, and God’s angels remind us that there is work to be done here and now. Before Jesus ascended, he passed the baton, so to speak, to his disciples. “As he returned to God, Jesus instructed the disciples to pick up and continue his work. They were to be Jesus' witnesses, and they were to expect God to send the Holy Spirit to help them with the task.”[5]
            You see, we’re not alone in this work. Jesus says elsewhere that he will not leave us orphans, because he will send the Holy Spirit to be with us.[6] We will celebrate the coming of the Holy Spirit next week, on Pentecost.  And we also have each other. Thanks to the waters of baptism, we are all part of God’s family here at church. And this is a family where even if we don’t have our own kids, we are mothers and uncles and grandmas and big brothers and older cousins to all the kids here among us. It doesn’t look like it now, because they’re all in Sunday School, but we average about one child for every eight adults or so. Our children are important to us as a church, and part of building up our church is to build up our families. It’s helping out those with young kids. It’s making everyone feel welcome here and included. And it’s work that we do together.
So, as we stop staring at the sky or the past or whatever it is that we’re focused on yet can’t change, let’s get back to the work there is to do, the work we were given to do, to love and serve God and each other, as faithful witnesses of Christ our Lord.[7] Today, which is not only Ascension Sunday yet also Mother’s Day, we remember especially the work of mothers. The past few years I have ended my Mother’s Day sermon with a litany on the wide spectrum of motherhood, and I’d like to repeat that again today.

Litany on the Spectrum of Motherhood:[8]

    To those who gave birth this year to their first child—we celebrate with you.

    To those who lost a child this year – we mourn with you.

    To those who are in the trenches with little ones every day and wear the badge of food stains – we appreciate you.

    To those who walk the hard path of infertility, fraught with pokes, prods, tears, and disappointment – we walk with you. Forgive us when we say foolish things. We don’t mean to make this harder than it is.

    To those who are foster moms, mentor moms, and spiritual moms – we need you.

    To those who have warm and close relationships with your children – we celebrate with you.

    To those who have disappointment, heart ache, and distance with your children – we sit with you.

    To those who lost their mothers this year – we grieve with you.

    To those who experienced abuse at the hands of your own mother – we mourn with you that your childhood was not as it should have been.

    To those who lived through driving tests, medical tests, and the overall testing of motherhood – we are better for having you in our midst.

    To those who are single and long to be married and mothering your own children – we mourn that life is not turning out the way you long for it to be.

    To those who step-parent – we walk with you on these complex paths.

    To those who envisioned lavishing love on grandchildren – yet that dream is not yet or will not be, we grieve with you.

    To those who will have emptier nests in the upcoming year – we grieve and rejoice with you.

    To those who placed children in the guardianship of others – we commend you for your selflessness and remember how you hold that child in your heart.

    And to those who are pregnant with new life, both expected and surprising – we anticipate with you.

    This Mother’s Day, we walk with you. Mothering is not for the faint of heart and we have real warriors in our midst. We remember you and what you have taught us and we give thanks to God for you.  Amen.


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